James, Aria & Sasha

“Blessed and happy is he that ariseth to promote the best interests of the peoples and kindreds of the earth.” -Bahá’u’lláh

“Do not be content with showing friendship in words alone, let your heart burn with loving kindness for all who may cross your path.” -‘Abdul-Bahá

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

My beloved father, Jere, passed away late this evening (December 12th).



Allah-u-Abha!

In mom's words: Dad embraced himself with his arms, took a deep
breath, lifted his hands in the air, laid them down and closed his
eyes with a smile on his face. When I walked into the room he had the
most serene look on his face.
Shortly after he passed away some of the members of the community arrived and we all gathered to say some prayers together. Mom didn't want him to just lay there all night in bed, so between Marcos, Dick and I we washed and prepared the body for
today's funeral. The casket was brought in at midnight and is hand-made of the finest hard wood. We made last minute decisions last night to have the funeral today (13th of December) and then a memorial later on when mom decides is best. So today's funeral will begin with prayers at 2:00PM local Costa Rican time at our house, at 3:00 PM we will have a car take the casket to the local cemetery. My mom will
then let everyone know when we can have a memorial for the people that
could not attend the funeral. I think she wanted to keep the funeral
down to family members, close friends and the local community.

Dad already had a death certificate and that is being submitted as I
speak...I have a lot to do so I will keep this short.. Love you all very
much.. I slept with mom last night and we stayed up until early hours
this morning talking about things, which was really nice. Hardly slept
at all, so forgive this disorderly informative letter.

Love and more love,
David.

12 Comments:

  • At December 12, 2007 11:00 PM, Blogger d said…

    Love and prayers to you and your family.
    I am so sad.
    Love, Darren

     
  • At December 13, 2007 12:18 AM, Blogger Fairi said…

    My condolences to you and your family during this really difficult time... our hearts are extremely heavy to hear the news.

    All our love,
    Faranak & Gilberto

     
  • At December 13, 2007 9:33 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Just as Jere's infectious smile encircled us all, loved ones around the world embrace you and yours with prayer, sympathy, love and ever so sweet memories this day and in the days to come.
    Paulette & family
    California

     
  • At December 13, 2007 9:42 AM, Blogger gypsy said…

    We will be remembering your father and your entire family in our prayers.
    Love,
    Sjona and Jason

     
  • At December 13, 2007 11:03 AM, Blogger carolina said…

    hi family,

    i just wanted to let you know that we are thinking and praying for you, and sending all our love. even though i couldn't help but cry when i heard the news, now i am just feeling so happy and calm-- uncle jere has always seemed so excited to start his journey in the next world... it's going to be such a good trip for him :) i love you all and am sending you hugs and prayers.
    lots and lots and lots of love,
    caroline

     
  • At December 13, 2007 9:13 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Brad and I send you all our love and prayers. Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you, dear McKinneys and loved ones of Jere's. What a wonderful to tribute to Jere to be showered with so much loving kindness and happiness. The messenger of joy has come.
    With love and deepest condolences,
    Jane Clarke James
    Brad James
    Houston

     
  • At December 14, 2007 8:41 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I was very sorry to hear about Jere's passing. Will remember you all in my prayers. Love, Maitri

     
  • At December 14, 2007 2:46 PM, Blogger Diane said…

    My most sincere condolences to the family at these difficult times.

    Lots of love

    Diane

     
  • At December 14, 2007 3:18 PM, Blogger CLucas said…

    It's hard to imagine the world with out Jere in it. That's what I keep thinking about. He had such a presence and I've know him so long.

    Ana Loria told me a little about the funeral. I wish I could have been there to honor Jere. He had profound love of life, Baha'u'llah and his family. I know you will all miss him so much.

    We will say prayers for the progress of his soul on the cliffs above the ocean at a special spot.
    love to you all,
    Chela

     
  • At December 15, 2007 11:57 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    "Unite our hearts in Thy Love with Thy indissoluble bond..." and "cause them, dressed in royal robes, to walk in glory forever and ever..."
    I have felt Jere playing with me in bubbles that suddenly blew up at the kitchen sink-could be that he is reminding me to lighten up. The prior day (December 11th) I was walking/praying for him in the forest and remembering how lovingly he befriended and cared for me during my visit to C.R. I knew he was being loving cared for by his family in C.R. and that he was where he wanted to be in tranferring from this realm to the next. A deep calm came over me as I felt spirit with him. I started singing: "Oh Lord my God, open up the door. Prepare the way, make safe the path. For verily Thou art, the Help in Peril, the Self-Subsisting, Ya Baha'u'llah apa. Little did I know how quickly he would be moving on--this precious and tender bird to fly - released to see His Face! WOW...WOW...WOW...!!!!!!!!!
    Loved him so dearly, will miss him - but we will meet again, God willing. Thank you Family for posting his passing so lovingly to us.
    Love and prayers continue for all family and friends of J.J. Mckinney. Morgan in Humboldt California

     
  • At December 17, 2007 2:46 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Thank you for sharing so much about Jere over the last difficult months.

    From my earliest recollections of Jere, when he was 11, up to the present year, the boy, the adolescent, and the man all
    displayed an abundant appetite for life and love, a stubborn streak outmatched by a remarkable humility, and an utterly personal,
    unforgettable humor.

    When I think of the whole span of Jere's life, with all the little human frailties and foibles reduced in scale to the size of dust motes, it appears in large exactly like that beautifully described gesture which announced his passing.

    I saw a lot of Jere during the months he was first discovering the Baha'i faith. It was the last period he stayed with his
    father, John, and John was acting out painful situations on a daily basis. In my mind, one of the great testaments to Jere's faith is how
    he was free not only to forgive his father for innumerable hurts but to reach out to John lovingly, again and again, like a favorite son.

    I think each of Jere's friends has a personal story of how Jere reached out uniquely to her or him with a similar fullness of heart and spirit. Jere had such hope and love for all of us.

     
  • At December 18, 2007 8:43 AM, Blogger Daniel and Erica said…

    Querida Familia McKinney,

    I have thought a lot about you and Don Jere during these past few months, and am deeply sorry that I didn’t have a chance to say goodbye. I am so glad that we had a chance to visit when we went to Costa Rica in January of ‘04, and so happy that Daniel had a chance to meet him. I have a great photo of Jere from our trip to the Paz Waterfall, looking radiant with joy to be sharing such a beautiful place. It’s just how I picture him smiling at all of us now from the Abha Kingdom, saying “You've got to see this place!”

    All my love and prayers,
    Erica (or as Mr. Jere used to call me, Airhicka)

     

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